One of the most valuable aspects of the experience in Bangkok was the opportunity to converse with a local and allow them to aid in navigating me around their city, culture, and people. Beyond traveling to each site, experiencing the Thai massage, and trying the food, I valued the conversations that accompanied each experience. Some highlights, reflections, and ways to apply the topics Tim (below) and I discussed to your life, below:
The family is the nucleus of Thai culture: In conversation about typical hangouts for young adults, Thai “millennials” tend to stay with their families. Contrastingly, in American culture, we yearn for independency from the age of 18 (or earlier). Nevertheless, identify the root of your life, embrace it, and respect it—it often gives you the life you need if aligned appropriately.
The weather doesn’t dictate local Thai fashion style: Considering it was winter in Bangkok, I was astonished by weather reports stating it was 95 degrees outside (although, a nice relief from Shanghai chills); even the more, I was astonished with how so many people still were wearing pants. Indicative of their commitment to style over weather, Thai style devout showcase the importance of maintaining consistency in staying true to yourself.
Respect your culture: I recall I was pointing at a building or sign and I was informed that its perceived as rude to point at things in Thai culture. Shocking, as its common to point to identify your “point” of reference,” but I was more so enlightened to the importance of respecting your culture and doing your best to cultivate the livelihood of your culture by sharing it with others. Your culture is the environment that ultimately cultivates your growth and inherently makes you special; as you explore the world, respect what makes you special and what helped make you special.
